Showing posts with label Tips. Show all posts
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Teenagers Depression : Understand It To Cure It

Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Posted by DimO

Nowadays, teenagers are easily susceptible to depression. It is an age of high imaginations and big dreams and when they find it difficult to achieve then it results in depression. Prolonged sadness for a long time without any measure to recover also results in the same. However, if parents follow few safety measures then you can not only get rid of depression but can also lead a successful life.

Depression in teenagers often results in becoming negative and rebellious. They are unable to concentrate on studies, drop out of school and feel disconnected from family. The feeling of not being understood by family gives boost to of this feeling in teenagers. Sometimes adolescents get very aggressive and restless. If you have a teenager at home, you should notice them closely to know if they suffering from depression.

Common signs of depression in teenagers:

Generally, when we think about depression then pictures like sad and tearful face comes into our mind. But the situation is entirely different in teens. Teenagers look just as common people; they generally do not show or indulge in talking about hopeless feelings like adults commonly do. If your teenage boy or girl is suffering from depression then you will find him/her having problem with school work, friends and also with family. He/she may constrain in one's room and even resort to harmful activities like use of drug and alcohol. Teenage girls indulged in themes of death or dying and they do not pay attention to how they are looking. Apart from it depression in teenagers leads them to become self destructive and have poor self esteem.

How to recover from depression in teenagers:

With proper diagnosis and right treatment depressed teens can be cured easily. However, you can undertake some of the below mentioned measures to cure depression in teenagers


--Consult a professional and get complete evaluation about the reasons of depression in teenagers. Since lingering illness, viral infections and there can also be thyroid reasons for this.

--Increase the quantity of proteins in your teenager's diet.

--Try to include exercise in your routine and get time for walk for around 15 minutes or more.

--Teenagers should try to indulge in activities that give them pleasure.

--Take the help of counselors to help them come out of depression.

--Parents should also try to understand the changes taking place in their teenage children.


Depression is more than just few instances of bad moods. It is more serious and harmful for the general well being of adolescents. They can have eating disorder, low self esteem, engage in substance abuse, violence or even attempt to commit suicide. Don't wait long seek immediate professional help. Be patient and understand about depression to help your child out of this difficult time.

How Depression Affects Our Lives

Posted by DimO

Depression affects us all during our life time. Some are held in it's grasp to a greater degree than others. Depression can affect our sleep habits, our outlook on life and even our life. It can change the way that we think and act. It can keep us locked within dark places for long periods of time. Our functioning as human beings can be affected and curtailed by this disease. Genetics plays a role in this malady. Suicide rates are higher in some families than others. People who suffer from this malady feel as though they are in a big and dark hole . Extricating themselves from the hole that they have dug for themselves is one big problem. Psychiatric help with the use of drug treatment is one viable alternative.

The society that we live in and the problems associated with it greatly contribute to depression. When a spouse leaves or when any other traumatic event occurs can contribute to depression. Most of us do not have the family structure available to handle these situations. We feel as if we are alone and isolated on an island. Many times the affected person can have an established family structure and still be affected by this disease. Whether it be the death of a loved one or the loss of a job, the end results can often times be the same.

Many people that enter depression do not have a viable reason for entering that dark and deep hole. Two people that are affected by the exact same dilemmas can react totally different to the same problem. Some people are not effected by problems that send many others into a life threatening situation. Many people have built in coping mechanisms that derail the onset of depression. Good ways for people to off set the affects of depression is to do something that they enjoy. A vacation or get away may be good for one person but may not be good for another. Being among people may enhance recovery for some people and send others plummeting into despair. Family members and friends should treat this as a disease and recognize the fact that one usually has no control over the matter without professional help.

Depression can lead to death. A deeply depressed person can not rationalize how to escape his dilemma. Just the act of thinking about his problem is apt to drive him deeper into that depressive state. Rely on professional help and the good sense of family members and friends who can recognize problems in a person that the afflicted may not even recognize himself. Depression is one of the leading ills that affects modern day man. Many situations may contribute to it. Sometimes it requires no trigger mechanism to initiate the feelings of hopelessness and the feeling that life is not worth living. Those who think this way often rationalize that the best solution to the problems of life is to disconnect themselves from the problem of life. The pain that they have been suffering from would finally end. There is real pain in depression. The thoughts of doom and negativity are sometimes so great that the only solution for a person in a deeply depressed state is to terminate life.

Even though all of us suffer from stress related problems there are answers for many who suffer from extreme depression. There are hot lines set up for many sufferers in crisis type situations. Help is just a phone call away. There is also help for sufferers in the medical community. Maybe a conversation with a representative of a favorite religious community can help turn the torment. Our society recognizes that it has created many of the problems that effect sufferers. There is help out there for those who suffer.

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Therapy for Depression : Your Pet Can Give You A Hand

Thursday, November 13, 2008
Posted by DimO

Who could dispute that animals can have a positive effect on emotional well-being? With research being conducted into the field of alternative medicine on an on-going basis, more and more people are beginning to realize the cathartic effects that animals are having on individuals well-being, especially so in those patients suffering with depression.

While some people recover from depression using medications alone, there are many others, who would prefer to use a combination of alternative therapies to try to alleviate the symptoms of depression. One of these treatments being studied is ‘Pet Therapy’, but what is this alternative and how could it help?

Many scientists have spent endless hours looking into the different types of therapy available for treating depression as an illness; ‘Pet Therapy’ has been concluded as one of these therapies. Animals have long been recognized as being a positive force in the healing process.

Dogs notably have a calming and therapeutic effect on people. They can help individuals to cope with the emotional issues related to their illness. They also offer physical contact with another living creature and help to divert a person's attention from their pressing daily problems. Owning a dog brings about a sense of responsibility. Dogs rely on their owners for feeding, walking, attention and love. What better excuse for a depressed person to get out of bed in the morning?

Dogs love almost everyone without any degree of prejudice or rejection. You do not need to speak any type of language to communicate with a four-legged friend. Give them a treat, tickle their tummy and they will love you without bounds. Dogs are aware of illness and sadness and genuinely want to provide companionship and comfort; they show an abundance of intelligence and are both intuitive and compassionate. Any dog owner will relate and agree with me when I say that it is a warm feeling when their dog can detect their sorrow and lick their tears away.

Pet Therapy can facilitate many positive changes one such example being increased socialization skills. Animals can be used as part of group therapy programs to encourage communication and increase the ability to focus. Helping to develop a person’s self-esteem and reducing their loneliness and anxiety are just some potential benefits of individual-animal therapy.

The bond between humans and animals is demonstrated every day in millions of homes around the world. It is also becoming a powerful, common mode of therapy in many facilities such as hospitals, schools and residential homes.

While it is difficult to measure and quantify the benefits of dog therapy with hard scientific fact, there is no question that the magical interaction possible between animal and human is unmistakable. Tears can be dried. Scowls transform into smiles. Silence is broken and lastly but not least importantly loneliness and isolation can be ejected from a person through mere touch and cuddles. Dogs offer their owner’s absolute and unconditional love and a level of boundless patience that no human could ever possibly give. The love of a dog is unlimited, what better form of alternative therapy could there be?

What If You Have Depression?

Posted by DimO

When you fear to face the world, undoubtedly you are depressed. Depression is a growing problem. In last 50-60 years. Its rate has gone much higher. The average age, of people going under depression first, has decreased now; back it was 30s, but data say these days it has gone down under 20. It is because teen age is the most suffering age. United State is the highest rating depressed country. No doubt, it's just because of fast and restless lifestyle, which is now unstoppable. Although there are several tips and ways are told to the people to avoid depression, which are very useful and many people are benefited by them; still some of people fall in it due to any reason. What, they should do, is here:

-- If you have come under depression, first you should honestly try to recognize the main cause of what you are suffering from. Get your real condition and then contact to any counselor or health care provider. If a child or teenager is suffering; his or her parents should keep their duty. Parents must understand the problem and console him; if it needs, bring him to the doctor.

-- When you are with your counselor; you should completely co-operate him. Let him know your exact mental condition, what occurred with you. Also if you are taking any medication, which causes it, do mention it. What happens, often people refuse to acknowledge the existence of the symptoms, which makes it harder for them to be treated successfully. Keep in mind that he can not help you unless you don't let them have proper information.

-- Once you are under therapist's consideration. You should strictly follow what he advises. Keep regular touch with your counselor or therapist. You should forget every thing at that time and pay proper attention to recover soon. Ask your doctor about proper diet for you.

-- If you are depressed; make it a point to never be alone. Although, some of the people say that loneliness gives piece, sorry I don't agree with them. Especially, if your child is depressed, parents must keep him under eyes, because loneliness worsens the condition.

-- If any accident is the cause of depression, you should never go to that place or try to avoid recalling that memory. I know, it's not so easy, but what's the harm in trying. You can make yourself busy in order to do it.

-- Whether, it is an official problem or any other; you should have a long leave and go on vacation at any peaceful place. When you come back; more probably, you will be out of depression and with new energy.

-- You should meditate for some time. Not only is it good for those, who are depressed, but also for the normal people. It helps them to avoid.

These are some great tips for the people, who are finding them in deep trouble. But these are supposed to be followed by the patient's family members more, because sufferers never want to disclose that they are having any this type of problem. Even sometimes they also don't come to realize their illness.

Depression Facts

Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Posted by DimO

Don't get confused with all the terminology.Here are a few definitions and explanations that will simplify it:


ANXIETY:
A feeling of fear or worry with no reason. You cannot be anxious about something. You can be worried or fearful of something.

PHOBIA:
Is an over valued fear. It may be irrational but not completely illogical.


PANIC:
Anxiety on steroids. It is more than a feeling. It is anxiety accompanied by bodily reactions such as sweating, increased heart rate.

SADNESS:
A feeling of loss sadness is very similar to mourning. Sadness can be a loss of something that you never had. It may be realization that you will not get what you wanted.

DEPRESSION:
Is prolonged unexplained sadness. Depression exhibits itself in the way that you feel, think and think.

MILD DEPRESSION:
Depression where you can still function. Essentially we are seeing a diminution in quality of life. This condition is often called Dysthymia.

SEVERE DEPRESSION:
Depression with a diminution of functioning. We are no longer discussing just quality of life. There are objective changes in the way that you behave with friends, family or work [or its equivalent].

EMOTIONS:
A composition of the way that you think and feel. Emotions are a reaction to a specific event.

MOODS
When an emotion exist after the event has terminated you are in a mood. Your mood will effect your emotions.

WHEN DOES A MOOD BECOME DEPRESSION?
When you cannot change your mood by changing your actions or environment.

COPING
Is the way that you behave to reduce stress.

COPING SKILLS
Are the admixture of experience and coping styles.

COPING STYLES
Are the way that you think feel and act in given situations. Often you are unaware of your thoughts. You may well make assumptions that are inappropriate. Over forty five percent of the population feels that they would like to improve the way that they cope.

WHAT ARE THE CHANCES OF BEING DEPRESSED?
Over twenty percent of the population will suffer from depression in their lifetime.

HOW LONG AND OFTEN CAN YOU BE DEPRESSED?
Depression can take months to pass. It will re-occur on average three times.

WHAT ARE YOUR CHOICES?
a. Drug [Medication] Therapy: Drug therapy should always be offered if a person is severely depressed

b. Psychotherapy: Psychotherapy is a effective as drug therapy in treating mid depression. The most used, recommended form of psychotherapy is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy[CBT] .

c. Coaching, Online Self-Help: Is designed specifically to change coping skills and coping styles. CBT can be offered effectively as Online Self-Help. It is now enhanced by Online one on one meetings. Coaching is CBT presented in a ‘teaching format’.

HOW DO YOU CHOOSE?
a. Severe depression: You should make medications your first choice. On feeling better and well enough improve your coping skills and styles to prevent a relapse.

b. Mild depression: If you believe in medications then use them. If you do not, then use psychotherapy. On feeling better and well enough improve your coping skills and styles to prevent a relapse.

c. Moods: You should be either using psychotherapy or improve your coping styles and skills.

WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT?
a. Medications: There are side effects. They are bearable. They appear at the beginning of therapy and get less. You will start feeling the effect of medication after a few days. You will feel the full effect after a few weeks. You need to take the medication for six months. You should cease medication under supervision. Otherwise there may be side effects. On ceasing medication you are prone to relapse.

b. Psychotherapy: The effects are more immediate. Sadness tends to diminish. Quality of life increases. The chances of relapse are lessened.

c. Online Self-Help, Coaching: An almost immediate increase in feeling of coping. Quality of life will quickly start to improve as moods lessen. This method is specifically designed to increase quality of life and prevent relapse.

Breathe A Little

Monday, November 10, 2008
Posted by DimO

What to do if you are depressed? Breathe. If you can accept that your depression has deep personal meaning, if you can accept the experience in which you find yourself, and if you make the conscious decision to be alive, then the best therapy is to consciously breathe. You don't need any fancy breathing techniques. Just breathe more deeply than you are right now. Breathing helps move the heaviness of depression. Breathe with intention to fill up with life. You already know that depression does not hold much light, not much energy. Breathing will arouse energy. You can't just wait for energy to flow into you. You must decide to choose life, breath, and energy. If you can, get up and go for a walk outside. Get some fresh air and sunshine. Breathe. If you just arouse a little bit of energy, it will help you to generate a bit more energy, and that uplifts you and gets you moving out of the depression.

Depression involves the very real emotional despair of living day to day with real hopelessness. There is no one right way through depression. Your life is very important, including those times when you are in transition or depressed. Use the ideas above to help support yourself as you choose to bring new meaning into you life.

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Why Does Depression Occur

Posted by DimO

Depression is a time of big change, a time of choosing if we dare release the beliefs that have kept us alive, surviving, and conformed. Depression is a time of questioning the foundational beliefs we hold. This is not a bad thing. Yet, when we question deeply held beliefs the problem lies in the fact that we temporarily lose safety, meaning, and purpose of life. Leaving something behind and moving into something unknown can cause different reactions for different people. Some people sail more easily through change, but most of us tend to go kicking and screaming. Indeed, when great change is upon us, for many people the experience will turn into a period of great depression.

Depression involves an interim of releasing old ways of believing yet we have not yet embodied new beliefs or new life skills. Depression, and thoughts of suicide, happen when we are in turmoil, caught between the end of an old way of living and a terrifying desire to live in a new way. In this transition, we cannot feel the joy of being alive. Internal anxiety rises and there is nothing we can do to run or hide from the conscious realization that we feel alone. We feel lethargic, powerless, and trapped. It seems as if the pain exceeds our capacity to deal with it.

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Depression and Personal Growth

Posted by DimO

An easy start to shifting depression is to consider that depression is not dysfunctional, not a mental illness, but deeply meaningful. Consider the idea that depression may be a naturally arising expression on your journey of evolutionary growth. Yes, depression is dark, and a time of misery and suffering. Yet, it also a time when we ask deeply personal questions:

Who am I?
What does it mean to be human?
What makes life worthwhile?
Is depression really something that we should avoid, or an illness that we should "cure"?
Should our profound questions be pushed down into silence with medication and drug therapy?

The distress you feel is real, the suffering immensely painful, and there is a very real risk of ending your own life. However, what if you are in distress but yet not ill? When you look inside, do you really believe, on a soul level, that your pain is simply due to a chemical imbalance - or might there also be a meaningful spiritual aspect to your journey through depression.

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Accepting Depression

Posted by DimO

The first step for breaking the cycle is accepting depression. If you are struggling with depression, you may have tried countless therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, energy healers, self-help books, and programs. You may have practiced the power of positive thinking, studied the law of attraction, practiced meditation, or looked into religion for you answers. Through all these strategies, you have been at war with your depression, doing everything within your power to get rid of it.

Pharmaceutical companies try to convince us that depression is an illness caused by an imbalance in brain chemicals. If we simply take medication, we can quickly get back to feeling better again. If only the answer were so simple. Perhaps there is a gift beyond depression that can only unfold if you first accept your experience instead of trying so hard to make it disappear.

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Depression - Am I Crazy?

Posted by DimO

Let us talk about happiness. Most of us want to be happy, all the time, no matter what is going on around us! It's plain and simple. But, being happy, how do you do that, get there, be that?

Maybe happy is not really what you are looking for. After all, happy is just like any other emotion...it comes and it goes. Perhaps what you seek is the ability to feel joy. Not just alive and surviving, but energized, excited, and living the life of your dreams. Imagine feeling joy beyond your wildest dreams as you live in your body, glad to be you, putting energy into your life's work, and creating stimulating experiences. Joy also means accepting your human emotions, experiencing the ups and downs of life, while learning to breathe and let things pass in their own time.

So how do we gain this feeling of joy? As paradoxical as it may sound, perhaps for some of us the path to joy leads us first through depression.

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Depression and Daily Life

Posted by DimO

How can you continue living with depression and all the obligations of your daily life? You must treat your psychological problem. Despite much you suffer and why, you can overcome depression, even if you are a victim of terror.

You can learn how to forgive your enemies forever, how to do everything you need, how to develop your personality and many more things, only by analyzing your own dreams. They provide you with information about your psyche because its activity defines your behavior and prepares your future.

You have to start with resistance because you simply have to continue, regardless of how you feel. This is something you must understand: you must continue your journey.

Think that you are not the only one in this world who suffers. This is how you have to start. Everybody in this world is depressed and nobody wants to work or do anything else, but life goes on. You have to do the same.

However, you cannot simply accept life by pushing yourself to continue. You have to be cured!

In order to be cured you need the following:

1- Courage and an incentive to continue.
You can find what you need in the wisdom of mankind and mainly in that of religious teachings of all religions. The wise unconscious that produces dreams will give you many incentives to continue and you'll achieve strength by following its directions. The unconscious wisdom is saintly and perfect.

2- Resistance
Even if you feel like abandoning everything and everyone, stand up and go ahead. This is not going to last forever. You will feel better if you resist!

3- Faith
You must believe that you will feel better and that there is a superior spirit that can help you become superior as well. All the suffering through which you are passing now transforms your soul. Life has no meaning without suffering, because wisdom comes from comprehension and comprehension, from sensitivity. Only suffering can convert the indifferent human being into a sensitive creature that will love peace and stop causing wars.

If you suffer today it is because you are learning. Tomorrow, you'll feel better and the next day, you'll be a teacher who teaches the world and the new generations many things.


Your suffering is not eternal and as soon as you learn what you needed to, you will feel happy again, even though you don't believe it is possible. You can believe that there is a superior being able to do the most impossible miracles because this is true: there are already many scientific proofs of God's existence.

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